The Order Everyone Gets Backwards

Most people try to acquire their way into becoming. Buy the car, wear the watch, and somewhere in there, become rich. It runs in that order in their head: have the stuff, and you’ll be the thing. It’s backwards, and it doesn’t just fail — structurally, it can’t work. You’re trying to install a result … Read more

I Didn’t Save to Retire. I Saved to Build AND Live.

People hear the numbers and assume the goal was to stop working. It wasn’t. I saved hard so I could build freely — and those are two completely different lives. Here are the numbers, plainly. From 2008 to 2017, my wife and I averaged around $10,000 a month combined. Over ten years, roughly $1.2 million … Read more

The Inheritance That Isn’t (Just) Money

Nobody ever sat me down and taught me money. I had front row sits since I was 8 years old, money fights after money fights, and it broke my heart how two loving people who werent equipped with decent regulatory functions combined with financial illiteracy kept fighting each other, not realizing it’s TWO of them … Read more

Customers Will Always Know

A cafe near my kids’ previous pre-school used to be our weekday breakfast spot — $8 to $10 every morning, then we’d drop the kids off next door in school. One Monday I peeled a chicken wing for my kid and realised it was Friday’s. Re-fried, dried out, sitting in oil that had been recycled … Read more

I’m Not Smart. That Was the Whole Strategy.

Rich Dad Poor Dad changed my life, and the line that stuck wasn’t about money. It was Kiyosaki being honest about what he wasn’t. I ran the same audit on myself, early. Here’s what it returned: Most people read that as bad news…but me? I read it as an indicator of sorts, on a rough … Read more

Finish or Let Go

(Previously named The Battle To Finish) There are two ways to never finish — and they look like opposites. Everyone celebrates the start. You announce the business and people cheer. You launch the thing, open the tab, pitch the idea, plant the flag. Starting feels like progress, and it photographs well. Almost nobody throws a … Read more

I Used to Think Wanting Money Made Me a Worse Christian

(Previously titled “God Doesn’t Need Your Money: Why Most Christians Fail at Faithful Wealth”) Let me get the cleanest part out of the way first: God doesn’t need your money. He never did. He owns everything already — “For every beast of the forest is mine, and the cattle on a thousand hills.” (Psalm 50:10). … Read more

“I Sold All My Crypto at the Wrong Time”

Why I moved nearly everything out of an asset I couldn’t govern — and into one I could. A few years ago I sold all of my crypto at what most people would call exactly the wrong time. People who knew told me I was crazy. Some of them were right about the price. None … Read more