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Chasing butterflies is hard....but easier when you build a garden.

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Chasing butterflies can be a fun activity, but have you realized that whenever you attempt to chase butterflies, they're not gonna sit still for you to catch them.

Yes, they'll flutter and fly away, evading your attempts.

Sometimes you'd get lucky...and maybe in time, you'd get good at it.

What if you nurture a garden instead?

Maybe this garden will attract all the butterflies you want.

This analogy teaches about the concept of attracting what and who you want, instead of going out to chase. 

You see, the butterfly is attracted to flowers, and the flowers dont work any harder to attract the butterfly - it simply exists and the butterfly GOES searching for it.

You attract what you deserve, and what / who you are.

Understand the concept of you attract what you deserve, and what you are.

Read and re-read that again.

Like how the flowers naturally attract the butterflies, who you are now, and who you become, naturally attracts people to you.

  1. If you are an asshole, you will naturally repel those who dislike assholes.
  2. If you're like a star, you'll naturally attract those who're like stars themselves.

So if you want to attract AND retain a type of person, you will have to consider what and who you are first.

Perhaps you may want to work on yourself first before embarking on a chase-relationships because that may not work out.

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