The last couple of weeks, I’ve been taking some time to think about the future of myself, and the future of NigelChua.com, and I wrote earlier in the article: Fascinating Season Of 2018 and 2019 that/how I’d change the focus of NigelChua quite a number of times since I started it in 2008/2009.

It seems like I seem to be unable to “focus” on one niche/topic, and move around from personal development, to internet marketing, to health (diet/supplements/etc), to finances (passive income, retire early, save more), leadership, relationships etc.

Yeah, quite a lot of changes and writings since then haha (740+ articles and growing).

I’m not quite sure if focusing on leadership and life transformation is where I’d end up, though when I read on other leadership blogs and books, I do resonate with the traits of good leadership:

  1. Confidence
  2. Humility
  3. Authenticity
  4. Fearlessness
  5. Adherence to principles (even at personal sacrifice)
  6. Calm in chaos
  7. Forgiveness

(list taken from Darren Hardy’s https://www.darrenhardy.com/blog/leadership-qualities-best-leaders)

– these are stuff that I try to embody/do in my personal life and business, and now that I think about it, maybe leadership can and will encompass all areas of life, including:

  • health and fitness
  • business and entrepreneurship
  • career
  • money
  • relationships
  • parenting
  • and this all, done in courage, love, truth, principles, power
  • and more

I’m not sure yet. I don’t know how to “pull and connect” it all together.

Mulling over it a little more. I don’t know if I can talk just about leadership, but what’s going through my mind is not just “I wanna be a leader”, but moreso I want to help others including myself, to “truly own” their own lives, difficulties, plans and efforts, for the results that they want.

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Maybe it’s called leadership.

Maybe it’s called ownership.

Maybe it’s called encouragement.

Maybe it’s called personal growth and development.

I don’t know exactly at this point in time.

What I DO know is that I want to: show my friends, relatives, colleagues, readers how to live a better live by showing

  • how I lead myself and make both easy and hard decisions
  • how I lean towards legal, ethical, moral and often spiritual-led decisions
  • how I grit and tough out through tough and hard times
  • how I interact with others
  • how I discipline my body/mind
  • how I save and invest
  • how I love and support my wife and kids and family
  • how I serve my colleague and friends with love, authenticity, sincerity

I don’t particularly want or like to call myself a leader, cos I don’t want to be full of myself.

Though I have had built a team with my wife in an earlier business from scratch to a 7-figure one with close to 30 team members, which was later acquired, and I do have other “achievements”, but I struggle with naming my achievements, I just want to serve my purpose in this world, to serve you.

I don’t know how and what exactly for now is this feeling or my thinking inside. Maybe I’m trying to find my specific purpose to serve.

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