Empathy: How I Feel Sorry For People Who Do Me Wrong

I don’t know how to write this…other than I usually have two major senses when someone goes out of their way to do me wrong. Initially it would hurt and sting. Then very soon, the hurt would become 50% sting / hurt and then 50% feeling sorry for them. Then 25% pain, then 10% then … Read more

Good Success – The Long Infinite Game

There are many different kinds of success. What is your idea of success? How do you measure your own achievements in life? One person’s idea of success may not be the same as another’s. For some, it might mean fame and fortune; for others, it could mean something more modest like a good job with … Read more

Spend At Least 5 Hours Every Week On Growth

You need to spend at least 5-10+ hours each week on growth activities. These includes Reading something that expands your mind Exercising to strengthen your body Forgiving others Speaking out in kindness Calling a loved one Etc If you do this every week, you will keep improving every week. Choose something that interests you and … Read more

Where and who do you want to be in X time?

This is an extremely important question to ask and ponder, on a regular basis. Maybe every week. It’s an important exercise because it’s a highly visual and exploratory exercise, taking note of where and who we are today, and mapping / connecting it to where we want to be in X amount of time. This … Read more

Great Pretenders

Remember the great hit song, “ The Greatest pretender?” After so many years (as of 2021, I am 39 years old), I finally understood a portion of what this means – it points to people who don’t know themselves and they pretend that are someone else in order for them not be judged or feel … Read more