Prioritize Doing Right And Good

Prioritizing doing right and good is always right and good, no matter how difficult or unpopular it is.

And the upside is right and good leads to more right and good later (boomerang effect) which tends to grow rather than tear/break-down.

What’s the point of doing things the wrong way?

Or choosing the easy path but not good path?

There is no merits in doing that at all.

Doing right and good is the easiest and sustainable approach to life and success.

Doing The Right Thing…Is Always The Right Thing

Doing the right thing…is always the right and good thing to do.

It’s practical, straightforward, it’s good and sustainable.

I’ve never understood why people cheat, lie, scam or do wrong stuff – it’s so much easier and better to just do good and the right thing. Not rocket science.

It’s just so much easier and direct to just tell the truth and be honest.

Stop Worrying About The Opinion Of Others

There is an insecurity and fear of “that you cannot let others say something bad or negative about you/me”

I’ve seen this repeatedly done and mentioned, like a mantra from children to adults to employees and even people in authority. It’s like a broken record, where so many people are afraid of judgement by others, especially negative ones.

So I’d like to talk about this.

Firstly you must know that many people are reactive, fearful and insecure rather than being loving, kind and generous. This itself will give you insight that not all data matters.

EVEN if they’re said by your parents or loved ones.

Secondly, it doesn’t really matter because in the end, you have to own your own life. You cant live your life based on what others tell you to do. That by itself is already a sure way to be unhappy, because you leave your happiness in the words, whims and fancies of others. Which many are idiots.

Thirdly, negative thoughts are much more sticky compared to good ones – a single negative thought can be 20X more sticky in your head and heart. An example is that if you have 10 people who love you but 1 who totally hates you – you may find that the one that hates you tends to be in your heart more often.

Lastly, we need to recognize and be aware that we’re good at somethings and not good at others. Focus on honing your strengths rather than patching or improving your weaknesses. If possible do both, but if you have to choose, focus on improving your strength. The real question is how do we deal with this?

I mainly take a functional operator point of view, which I use a filter, with these guiding questions:

  1. Is this true?
  2. Is this helpful or useful?
  3. Is this kind?
  4. Is this my priority?

2X Immigration Leads To Practicality And Success

Immigration isn’t a new concept to me, and you know what, I am immensely grateful for the multiple immigration moves that we did in our lives.

Location wise, I had two large immigration movement from Seremban (Negeri Sembilan) to Johor (Uncle place for a few weeks) and then once more to Taman Tasik where we rented our own space and then to Permas Jaya when my dad could afford his own space. This itself is four movements.

Later I migrated to Singapore when I was 20, and from there, make large but calculated moves from employee to agency to single clinic to multi-clinic chan, and in the process get played out by unscrupulous landlords and business owners who just played the short game (that’s why many of them fail to grow big or fail to go public/IPO or others – it’s because they cut corners).

These immigration and other big moves are quite helpful to form my ability to survive and thrive amidst change, to look forward and anticipate good and important changes, and also, to move away from projects and people that are time-wasters and just out to cheat/play in the short term.

Stop Chasing Money

Stop chasing money.

Period.

Too many people prioritize money over health, relationships, people and even themselves.

And yes, money is important, but it is NOT more important than health, relationships and people. People who think that way are sad and one-dimensional. It doesn’t work that way, the world is interesting such that once you choose to do what is good and right, money will chase you.

And as long as you chase money, it will be elusive.

Don’t be deceived, God isn’t mocked or deceivable – He can see all things and at the end of days, we will have to account for all we do, right and wrong.

So repent and do things the right way, and chase after God – everything else, including money, will chase after you after.

 

On Hope

Faith, Hope and Love and the three pillars of internal strength and from it pours out many of the other aspects of mastery including courage, trust, etc

In this video, I cover about holding fast to hope even though we may experience setbacks, setups, pains, suffering, and even after all those, to hold onto hope.

My hope is in Jesus Christ, and I happily share His name to the world because He is a solid rock which can hold and anchor me safely.

Do not give up – there is always hope.

Be Damn Good or Be Mediocre

There two (2) ways to live life generally:

  1. Be damn good at what you do
  2. Be mediocre and tear everyone/everything else down so you look good

Of course, the best approach is to be damn good at what you do, but it’s hard work – you have to keep leveling up, keep pressing on forward and doing the right and good things and you may be victim to sociopaths who will happily play you and throw you under the bus for their profit or merriment.

Yet, still choose love and choose good success.

At the end of our lives, we will have to account – would you want to account for a good life or a bad life?

To me, it’s quite straightforward – do the right and good things, and everything will fall into place, despite challenges, pains and setbacks.

Sorrowful Versus Joyful Money

Yeah there IS such thing about sorrowful money versus joyful money.

Sorrowful money is typically achieved with bad sorrows, and comes with a lot of bad sorrows too as the price to pay.

Conversely, joyful money comes with lots of joy, happiness and satisfaction.

Whenever possible, make decisions to choose work, career or life that creates joyful money – nothing in this world can be better than that (other than God, of course). Little to no stress, healthy, happy – what more can we ask for?

As opposed to scheming manipulations, lies, politicking and bad stuff like that.

Disgusting Quote #23 – Do You Smell The Money Here

I heard this quote from someone I used to know personally, who would tell me that they’re not there for money, they serve their God, but would repeated tell me these kind of quotes on money.

This very same person unfortunately will also throw people under the bus, antagonize others, lie…all to protect themselves and to hurt others so that they can either go up higher in promotions and to look better.

Don’t do that.

Instead, I want to recommend that you build a damn good life, career, business, relationships that is sustainable, scalable and infinite growth on whatever you care about, instead of being mediocre and tearing others down to look good.

10X Happier

Other than the pursuit of God as the highest calling, the next highest would be the pursuit of happiness.

To me, happiness happens when I’m in my flow and zone of doing things that matter, with people that matter. Doing good stuff, you know.

Not cheating, lying, scamming others – that kind of stuff, I cant agree with and cant do it. Don’t do it – I believe in doing the right things only. Even if they’re not popular.

Wrong decisions may be popular, and right decisions may not be easy or popular. But always do the right thing as it’d be registered in our minds, hearts and bodies…and we will have to account to God sooner or later.

Do the right thing, and be at ease in your soul.