Empathy: How I Feel Sorry For People Who Do Me Wrong

I don’t know how to write this…other than I usually have two major senses when someone goes out of their way to do me wrong. Initially it would hurt and sting. Then very soon, the hurt would become 50% sting / hurt and then 50% feeling sorry for them. Then 25% pain, then 10% then … Read more

“I Didn’t Read The Contract So It Doesn’t Count”

This is a memory of a distant past, and is a story how one fails at leadership and personal integrity. The words mentioned by someone I know, in their bidst to exit a contractually binding agreement. Deny, deny, deny, in their bidst to say that it wasn’t their fault – that it doesn’t count because … Read more

Interesting Chat With Grab Taxi Driver

This was an interesting chat with the grab taxi driver we took mid April 2021, which some following summaries: he was a horoscope master (Chinese zodiac and the stuff) he was cheated by his best friend of $2.5M in a joint venture in 2018 and had to sell his properties to cover the losses. In … Read more

Good Success – The Long Infinite Game

There are many different kinds of success. What is your idea of success? How do you measure your own achievements in life? One person’s idea of success may not be the same as another’s. For some, it might mean fame and fortune; for others, it could mean something more modest like a good job with … Read more

Spend At Least 5 Hours Every Week On Growth

You need to spend at least 5-10+ hours each week on growth activities. These includes Reading something that expands your mind Exercising to strengthen your body Forgiving others Speaking out in kindness Calling a loved one Etc If you do this every week, you will keep improving every week. Choose something that interests you and … Read more